And they say cats are supposed to be aloof …
Some are, some aren’t. All pets are individuals. Part of my job is to inform owners how to correctly interpret problem behaviours. If we encourage intense, unbalanced relationships, problems occur.
How so?
At the beginning of the pandemic we saw a surge in cases where pets were biting. They were getting too much attention from owners who were suddenly at home, so the defensive, natural response is a bite to say: “Leave me alone.” Also, for pandemic puppies there wasn’t much opportunity for socialisation, so you end up with adult dogs with a lifelong fear of everyday situations.
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What are the signs your pet isn’t coping?
Inappropriate toileting. Destructive behaviour. A classic is a dog ripping up a pillow. It’s because chewing releases endorphins that help them relax if they’re anxious. Under no circumstances should people punish their pet for that.
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How can we make returning to work easier on our furry friends?
Incrementally expose them to you being away. Dress like you’re going to the office, pick your keys up, put deodorant on. Then go to a different room and close the door so they have the experience of not being able to access you. Start with a short time and build up. That can help them understand: “I can’t be on your lap all day long.”
I didn’t do any of that with my cat. She seemsOK …
She probably is; a lot of pets are resilient and adapt quickly. I see the exceptions.
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Have there been a lot of shelter admissions recently?
We’re seeing people come to us saying their cat, dog or rabbit isn’t fitting in with their lifestyle or they’re having issues, so they want to rehome.
That’s sad.
I don’t think so. I feel quite strongly that rehoming a pet that doesn’t fit with your lifestyle is a really brave thing to do. It’s putting the pet first. If you got a collie during lockdown and now you can spend only 20 minutes on their walk, that pet is going to be unfulfilled.
But what if the pet doesn’t get a good home? Thereisn’t someone for every pet.
At the shelter, we can work on problem behaviours. We have all sorts of animals, and you can bet that if we have a one-eyed cat or an elderly dog that can barely walk, someone will walk in and fall in love with them.